Don't Be A Target: Protecting Yourself From Elder Abuse
Older adults sometimes are considered "frail" and unable to defend themselves. Sometimes, due to illness or medication issues, older adults are dependent upon others for bill paying or chores. These type situations can lead to abuse of older adults. While abuse is oftentimes physical or mental, it can also be emotional or financial.
If you are an older adult, you can help protect yourself from abuse by following these simple steps:
Know Abuse Warning Signs - Are you being fed properly and regularly? Are you being restrained? Does someone caring for you yell or hit you? Have you noticed strange charges on your credit card or large withdrawals from your bank account? If so, you could be in an abusive situation. Try to talk to someone you trust, such as a doctor, nurse, or relative. If you can't reach anyone, call your state's elder abuse hot line.
See Your Physician Regularly - Regular physician visits can spot abuse. Frequently, health care providers will notice signs of abuse, such as bruising, cuts, or broken bones, and will work with you to get help. Remember - answer your doctor's questions honestly.
Avoid Isolation - Stay connected and involved with life. Join a senior organization or join a group at your church. Ask people over to watch a television show, play cards, or just visit. Abusers can't target you if you are out and about.
Arrange Your Finances - Put your financial affairs in order. Make sure that you have someone that you completely trust lined up to make decisions for you - both medical and financial - if you are ever in a position that you can't do so. Prepare a Power of Attorney or appoint a guardian. Don't ever sign legal documents before allowing someone you trust to review them.
Watch Your Money - Watch your bank statements and credit cards for any strange withdrawals or charges. If you need help paying bills, you can arrange with the bank for direct deposits and automatic bill payments. Don't give out your credit card, social security or bank account numbers to anyone you don't know or by telephone. Remember to keep your valuables and banking information in a safe place. Try to stay involved with your financial affairs, even if it's only opening your own mail.
Caregivers - If you have to rely on a caregiver, try to research the agency you are going to rely upon. Call your local Better Business Bureau and ask your doctor or someone else you trust for their opinion on the business.
The Terry Law Firm is experienced in handling cases of nursing home abuse and neglect. If you or a loved one has any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact us at (888) 317-2525 or visit us on our website at www.nursinghomejustice.com.